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Ask the Band: Grieving after abuse.

Dear Band, "I was sexually abused as a child from age 5 to 8 by my babysitter's son who was 10 yrs older than me. I didn't tell anyone until I was 10 and blocked the bulk of it out until college. I just found out that the babysitter passed away earlier this week. I...

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Wednesday: Baby Olive van der Lingen

What you may or may not read below is something that you should be warned about. While not particularly graphic, the post contains strong themes such as child loss, stillbirth, baby loss, and suicide. If you feel that you cannot handle any of those triggers, please...

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Wednesday Preamble

The Band is somewhere you can share all the things that you don't feel safe sharing anywhere else. You know that. This week's focus post is no different. We feel compelled to warn you all that this week is focused on a deep-set grief and may be triggering for some who...

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